Friday, October 14, 2005

Live for the moment!!

My parents never told me this. They said “Don’t try to act matured, be child and grow matured”
My teachers never told me this, they said “Study every day’s topic systematically, and then it will be easy for you in exam”
We friends never discussed this. But we were happy playing cricket, volleyball making noise in group trying to steal good fruits from neighbor’s house. Nice and funny days…
Is n’t it? May be story that you have is different. But we know, we were really happy when we were children more than what we are…So analyzing the change what we had from our childhood to manhood is really important when we realize that, we lost our real happiness somewhere in this path.

I am matured now, I have moustache, and my body is bigger than those little kids. But I doubt, we have hindered the mental growth, when we were growing up. When we really know that, we can’t remain child physically, and if we realize that mental happiness was lost in the process of growth; either we should search out in the path and determine in which stage we turned gloomy or try to be a kid through out (Mentally). A valid question arise from here can be, “We were worried about mom’s punishments; we were really worried about Exam results”. How can we say, we were really happy when we were children. I look at it in this way. True that, children are really worried about punishments, they are also worried about exam results. What comes out from this thought? Let the worries be part of your life style.

Don’t be worried about the worries, but when we find happiness from any corner of our life, grab them and live for that moment instead of looking out for worries waiting for us. It is and it was always part of our life. Let us take them along with us. If there are no worries then how will we distinguish happiness? If What ever was taught to you and given to you was easy problems; Mathematics will become easy for you, people who scored good marks in mathematics first distinguished easy and tough problems and then the took along the difficult ones with them in the process. They got it done.

We have worries and happiness, as well said by an adage “two sides of a coin”; let’s take along the worries with us, and distinguish the happiness out of it. Like I earlier mentioned, Lets score good marks, by seeing and understanding the best out of it. Be an energetic and enthusiastic kid thru out. ” humming comes to my mind …18 till I die.

I am not forgetting the fact that, time puts you in a mental state where we only see difficult problems. But I strongly believe, a ray of hope remains in every moment.When you fight with the difficult ones you emerge stronger and confident. In exam we can skip difficult ones, but fortunately or unfortunately life may or may not allow you for that.Be prepared for the worst, don’t ever get away from the worst, remember it’s your turn to emerge stronger!!!

Best of luck for your love with worries…Love him (her??) and be kid thru out, Not physically :)

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